So you’ve met a great guy, and things are going fantastic! …
Maybe you have been with a man for a while, and it has being a lot of fun.
But at times, almost literally overnight, he goes from being really into you and the relationship, to being completely distant all of a sudden!
However, you’re smart and you know enough to give him space. Sure enough he changes back to his usual self again, and acts like nothing has happened at all.
Naturally you’re very confused about this, why does this keep happening? How can you stop this from happening?
Well lets take a look.
Why He Is Distant:
There are two ways we can explain this;
The spiritual way, and
The practical reality way.
The two go hand in hand, so lets explain both.
This blog is focused towards manifestation and the law of attraction, so it makes sense to incorporate that into this post for those who have a deep understanding of life and reality.
To put things simply, what you resits persists.
So if you’re resisting things in your relationship, or you’re afraid of committing, or even resisting the idea of him having the need for some space from time to time.
The universe could be reflecting this back to you.
Remember your reality acts like a giant mirror, so what is him becoming distant and pulling away reflecting back to you about your thoughts and beliefs?
If you can work on releasing this resistance in you, then you will find that this problem of him pulling away, and then coming back close again, will resolve itself.
From a practical perspective, there could be many reasons why he is acting like this.
For a very in depth and great explanation on why men pull away, make sure you check out Why Do Men Pull Away.
However in your case, the fact that he always comes back close to you after he has backed away indicates one thing.
He is most likely just wanting some time and space to himself.
Most people do, not just men.
He could just be doing the things he enjoys, or enjoying some time with friends, it doesn’t really matter. Unfortunately, you maybe interpreting this behavior as something more serious.
If you keep pestering him, when he does want time to himself, then you will only push him further away.
Allow him some space, and enjoy the time and freedom to have time to yourself as well.
If you can’t be without him, and constantly need reassurance from him, then you are being needy and clingy, and the relationship is ultimately doomed to fail.
Being needy and dependent on someone is a very negative energy. It sucks the life out of a relationship, and although it may seem cute at first, it doesn’t take long to become a very negative situation.
You are most likely over analyzing the situation, however if you think there are more serious reasons why he is pulling away like this, then make sure you read the article from the why do men pull away website.